Get What You Really Want 
Cheat Sheet 
How To Teach Your Brain To Get What You Really Want 
 
Step 1: What do you really want? 
 
Most people do not know what they want 
Some dare to dream but don’t know how to make this a reality 
You must be clear on what you really want 
Ask yourself the right questions to identify what you want 
Look at each desire and assess how this will make you feel 
Prioritize a maximum of 3 goals 
 
Step 2: Setting Goals Correctly 
 
1: Your goals need to excite you and inspire you 
2: Use the SMART FOR ME goal setting process 
3: Use the SMART process for specific, realistic, and measurable goals 
4: Use the FOR process for focus, optimism, and readiness 
5: Use the ME process to add meaning and make your goals exciting 
 
Step 3: Plan to get what you want 
 
1: If you fail to plan you plan to fail 
2: Ask yourself how you will achieve each of your goals 
3: Break down your high-level plan into daily tasks 
4: Find an accountability partner to motivate you 
5: Create an imaginary boss if you need it 
6: Don’t share your goals with everyone 
 
Step 4: Controlling your Thoughts 
 
1: You must control your thoughts to get what you want 
2: Your subconscious mind is a world beater 
3: You are in control of your thoughts 
4: You have a higher and lower self 
5: Neutralize negative thoughts with positive thoughts 
6: Avoid negative people and things 
7: Focus on the solution and not the problem 
8: Stop living in the past 
9: Create and use positive affirmations 
 
Step 5: Develop Mental Toughness 
 
1: Use the Law of Inertia 
2: Develop the trait of starting immediately 
3: Develop the trait to prioritise 
4: Develop the trait to focus 
5: Develop the trait of persistence 
6: Develop the trait of regularly reviewing your progress 
7: Develop the trait of organisation 
 
Step 6: Use the Law of Attraction 
 
1: The Law of Attraction is about like attracting like 
2: The Law of Attraction is not magic 
3: Ask the Universe for what you really want 
4: Think that you already have what you want 
5: Believe in the Law of Attraction 
6: Believe that you will get what you want 
 
Step 7: Increasing Confidence 
 
1: You will need more confidence to get what you want 
2: Identify and tackle irrational fears head on 
3: Develop your self-respect 
4: Create a physical confidence anchor 
 
Step 8: Daily Routine 
 
1: Start the day off right 
2: Read and reflect on your goals 
3: Read your statement to the Universe 
4: Read your positive affirmations 
5: Daily visualisation 
6: Make a start on your daily tasks 
7: Use a journal 
8: Learn something new everyday 
9: End the day right 
10: Read your affirmations again and plan for the next day 
11: Handle inactivity correctly to keep motivated 
 
Step 9: Get what you want Best Practices 
 
Determine what you really want 
Set goals using SMART FOR ME 
Create a plan to achieve your goals 
Control your thoughts 
Develop mental toughness 
Use the Law of Attraction 
Increase your confidence 
Develop a daily routine 
 
If you need help creating your cheat sheet for your business, I’m offering a free 30 minute discovery call. 
 
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